I kept on thinking about everything. And I think I found the key to everything. I am an adult now, I can think wisely. Honestly, things are just very simple. You just need to make a very simple and relevant judgement on your own.
1. Delete people who delete you from their life, but still, be nice.
2. Appreciate people who love you, and don't take them for granted.
3. Meddling in someone else's problem is not going to help them with anything, so help only when you're asked to.
4. If you've hurt someone, deal with it. Don't try to justify that you didn't hurt them. Apologize or if you are a coward (like me), stay away from them.
5. People who make you wonder where you stand in their life do not deserve to know anything about you. Lose them.
I will live with the fact that I hurt people. That only proves that I am a faulty human. I make mistakes and nothing is going to change that. I have been toxic to someone. Should I live in guilt? Yes but there are limits. And for people I have hurt before, you should not try to make me feel guilty. That's a very hopeless act because I'm self-centered. Only I matter to me.
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